The secret of hiring a sister from Zi Wei Dou Shu: How to quickly find a good housework helper

Imagine suddenly having a caring older sister at home. The kids have someone to play with, chores are easily handled, and you can finally find some free time to relax with a cup of hot tea. Where does this sense of ease and comfort come from? In this short video, we excitedly share our personal experience of hiring an older sister. From a quick physiognomy reading, to a meticulous pulse check based on birthdates, to a snap-and-snap interview, finding that "right" older sister is just a few steps away. Today, let's break down these practical tips step by step and discuss how the wisdom of Zi Wei Dou Shu can help you avoid minor problems, choose a truly compatible helper, and bring a touch of warmth and smoothness to your family life.

Step 1: Face reading and eye contact - the initial check of intuition

The first step in inviting someone to a date is always that "first-time hit it off" feeling. In the short video, we started by saying, "I'm so happy! I haven't felt this relaxed in ages." This is the magic of face reading—when you first meet someone, is their smile warm, their eyes comforting, and do their facial features convey a trustworthy impression? This step is the simplest, yet the most crucial, because it's like a window into their heart, revealing whether they can be together for the long haul.

Experience tells us that a sister with a gentle face, regular features, and eyes that curve when she smiles is often a good sign. This affable presence not only reassures you but also makes your children more approachable. One mother shared that upon first meeting her sister, she felt she had a steady demeanor, and they became close friends, becoming like a new leader in the family. However, if her eyes flicker or her complexion seems tired, it's advisable to be wary—it could be a subtle sign, prompting a closer look. Face reading isn't superstition, but a reflection of everyday intuition. Choosing the right one can save you many initial setbacks.

Step 2: Birth pulse diagnosis - carefully selected invisible filter

After the eye contact test, the short video goes on to say, "After eye contact, you should immediately check their birth year." This is the essence of the second step—using birth information to quickly assess the other person's aura and determine if they are compatible with your family's energy. This step doesn't require complex calculations; simply confirming a few key points can greatly reduce subsequent risks.

First, determine if your sister's birth year's wealth element falls into your life palace, wealth palace, children palace, or property palace. This is like checking an invisible compatibility chart: wealth element represents nourishment and smooth sailing. If it falls into these palaces, it means she can bring positive energy and help your family run more smoothly—a prosperous wealth palace means stable household expenses; a harmonious children palace means attentive care for the children; and an auspicious property palace creates a warm atmosphere at home. One parent tried this tactic and found that when her sister's birth year wealth element fell into the children palace, the children became very attached to her, achieving a much better balance between study and play.

After confirming this, ask the sister for her exact time of birth and draw up her natal chart, focusing on whether there are too many malefic stars in the House of Life and House of Illness. Too many malefic stars, such as Uranus, Mars, Rahu, and Saturn, can indicate mood swings or minor health issues, potentially impacting long-term stability. In practice, those with few malefic stars in the House of Life tend to have a stable personality; those with a clear House of Illness are physically strong and less prone to minor illnesses. A friend once overlooked this step and chose a sister with many malefic stars. Initially, things went well, but then minor health issues affected household chores, and a timely replacement was a relief. Birth pulse diagnosis isn't fortune-telling; it's like choosing fruit: first examine the skin, then cut it open and examine the inside to ensure the new member's long-term integration.

Step 3: Instant Interview – Final Confirmation of Success

Once the birthday is over, it's time to schedule an interview—this is what the short video calls a "live interview"—and it's the crucial final touch. During the interview, don't just ask about work experience; discuss more about everyday life—her perspective on childcare, household chores, her health, and even how she handles stress. Observe whether her responses are genuine and natural, and whether her attitude is positive. This acts as a final filter, validating the impressions from the first two steps.

The short video's description of "basically taking the job immediately after watching the interview" embodies this smooth experience: if the older sister's response is calm, her eyes are firm, and her words exude confidence, she's often given the green light. One mother casually asked the older sister how she put her child to sleep during an interview. Her gentle response instantly convinced her to accept the offer, and they subsequently worked seamlessly together, feeling like they had a trusted older sister in their home. However, if the older sister's response is vague or her eyes wander, it's advisable to wait—this might be a warning sign: it's better to have something than not. The interview not only tests her, but also your chemistry. Choose the right one, and the rhythm of the family will be right from day one.

Deeper Relationships: The Long-Term Benefits of Choosing the Right Sister

Hiring a sister isn't just about relieving household chores; it also adds stability and warmth to the family. The quick insights from these short videos are the result of a rigorous process: facial analysis creates an initial impression, birth chart filters out potential concerns, and interviews secure rapport. One parent commented, "I've hired someone I didn't get along with before, and there were always minor frictions. This time, with all three steps, the sister feels like family, and the children are much happier." More importantly, health and stability are key to long-term success—birth charts can foresee minor issues, and interviews confirm the sister's attitude, ensuring she will be a long-term companion for the family.

From a practical perspective, choosing the right sister not only reduces burdens but also enhances family fortune—children have someone to mentor them, couples have more time to spend together, and life naturally becomes more fulfilling. The short video concludes with a call for comments and a drawing, hoping to share this good fortune and allow more people to benefit.

Practical Advice: Achieving Successful Transformation from the Heart

Want to try this three-step method? Here's a simple guide to help you get started:

• When you first meet someone , pay attention to their smile and eyes. If you feel comfortable, chat for a while. If you need more intuitive guidance, please contact [Youshe].
• When screening by birth date, first confirm whether the natal year's wealth falls into your life, wealth, children, and field palaces; after passing the test, you need to start the chart with a detailed time of day to see the number of evil stars in the life and disease palaces to avoid emotional or health concerns.
• Arrange an immediate interview face to face to talk about life and attitude. If everything goes smoothly, make a decision immediately. Don’t delay it too long.
• To establish tacit cooperation, communicate more in the early stages, ask about health and habits, and lay the foundation of trust.

One parent asked Teacher JY for help in hiring a "good sister" to handle both housework and childcare. She laughed and said, "After completing these three steps, it really felt like winning the lottery. Life has become so much easier!"

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Real case sharing

Xiaomei used a three-step method to hire a sister, and now her children and household chores are in perfect order. [Youshe] suggested fine-tuning communication for a more harmonious family! Another reader quickly screened and avoided unsuitable candidates, making life much easier.

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